Don’t get me wrong here. I love, love my three grandkids. We’ve been here with them from the start. It’s their mother that goes in and out, in and out. So my husband and I are their main caregivers.
Things were easy when they were all under 10 years old. Sweet, kind and full of grace they were. But now the house is in constant conflict with three teenagers biting the bit from sunrise to way after sunset. Additionally, the cost of raising these children has risen and our income has not, and the eldest is begging for her own car!
All of our friends have suggested, if not compelled us, to seek help from social services, but the old man is adamant about not leaning on the government for absolutely anything. He’s a wonderful grandfather and husband, but he’s just so darned stubborn!
I trust your judgment on this matter. I’ll be sticking your column under Grandpa’s nose next Thursday evening, along with a scotch and soda. Thanks in advance.
Grandma in the Poor House
Dear Grandma,
I commend you both for taking on such a huge responsibility. God bless you both. However, there are government programs available to help with balancing your burgeoning budget. If you have not yet “done the paperwork” and legalized your positions as caretakers for three dependents, please make an appointment with social services to do so. There is no shame in it.
Truth be told, there are many citizens out there “on the dole” much less deserving than you two. Remember, the financial assistance and health care benefits are for your grandchildren, who have been deserted by their irresponsible parents.
Carry on, terrific grandparents. You will reap the rewards of the love and joy you receive and that you freely give in return.
I’m being extremely optimistic here because, on my 64th day of sobriety, I can look back clearly at my own parenting years and remember just how miserable living with back-talking, sexually active, disrespectful pubescent strangers truly was.
Sidney
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This advice is intended for entertainment purposes only. No animals were harmed in the writing of this column.
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