Welcome back to our two-part series on essential estate planning for newlyweds. Last week, we covered the first three items every newly married couple should address: updating beneficiary designations, making a will and establishing revocable living trusts. Today, we’ll dive into the final three essentials to ensure your plan is comprehensive and effective.
Durable financial power of attorney: Incapacity planning is a critical component of a well-rounded estate plan. A durable financial power of attorney allows you to name someone you trust (ideally your spouse) to manage your financial affairs if you become incapacitated and unable to make decisions for yourself. Without this document, your spouse would need to seek court appointment as your conservator or guardian, a process that can be time-consuming, expensive and potentially contentious.
With a durable financial power of attorney in place, your spouse can seamlessly step in to handle tasks such as paying bills, managing investments, filing taxes and conducting business operations on your behalf. This document is particularly important for unmarried couples living together, as it ensures your partner has the legal authority to maintain the household and prevent potential displacement.
Health care directive and living will: Just as important as planning for your financial affairs is preparing for healthcare decisions. A healthcare directive appoints someone (typically your spouse) to make medical decisions for you if you cannot communicate your wishes due to incapacity.
Without this document, your spouse may face legal hurdles in advocating for your care preferences, potentially leading to difficult guardianship proceedings. Complementing the medical power of attorney is a living will, which outlines your end-of-life care instructions, such as the use of life-sustaining measures, nutrition and hydration preferences and visitation rights.
The living will serves as a guide for your spouse (or designated agent) when making healthcare decisions on your behalf, ensuring your wishes are honored during a time of crisis. Combining these two documents can prevent emotional turmoil and potential family conflicts, as tragically illustrated by the high-profile case of Terri Schiavo.
Name legal guardians for minor children: If you or your spouse have children from previous relationships or are planning to start a family soon, naming legal guardians is an essential step. Guardians are legally appointed individuals who will care for your minor children should both parents become incapacitated or pass away.
While you may have informal arrangements with godparents or grandparents, these designations hold no legal weight. Failing to officially name guardians in a legally binding document could result in lengthy court battles and potential placement of your children with individuals you would not have chosen.
As you embark on this new chapter of life with your spouse, prioritizing estate planning is an act of love and responsibility. By addressing these six essentials, you can safeguard your family’s future and navigate life’s uncertainties with confidence. Remember, estate planning is an ongoing process, and revisiting your plan periodically is crucial as your circumstances change over time.
Send your questions to ccolan@colanlegal.com and use “Alpine Mountaineer estate planning question” as the subject. We’ll answer your questions in our upcoming issues.
This article is provided by your local estate planning attorney, Corina Colan.
The Law Office of Corina I. Colan / (909) 265-3315 / www.colanlegal.com







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